Military Discount: Edward Gorey House in Yarmouth Port

The folks over at the Edward Gorey House on the Cape offer free admission to Active Duty military and their families.

Adults:  $8
Children (6-12):  $2

A military family of four can save up to $20 and get FREE admission to the Edward Gorey House.

My Minimalist Refrigerator

My husband and I used to hoard magnets.  It was like we were young 20-somethings on a mission to fill our fridge with as many different various places that we've been too.  From Singapore to NYC to Hawaii to Japan and even Boston, we had a magnet hoarding problem.  This lead to paper and other misc. junk hoarding on the refrigerator.  See:

Then we had kids.  And we stopped spending $3-$6 on magnets.  And I have recently decided to give said magnets a break and put them in a storage bin.  If the magnets are not on the refrigerator, I can not be tempted to hang random crap on it.  Now, my refrigerator is a minimalist.  Another small step in my new Wannabe Minimalist lifestyle.

Cheap Party Favors - Recycling, Minimal & Pretty

Birthday season is coming around again - which means I'm a crazy lunatic planning and plotting the perfect birthday party for a bunch of 7 year-olds.  I can be a little anal when it comes to birthday parties but it's fun, so I don't care.  Here, I'll show you how create cheap party favors that incorporate some of my latest passions.

Birthday Party Crackers!

Items Needed & Cost:

Empty toilet paper and paper towel rolls  (Free!  Save them as you go through them!)

1 package of tissue paper ($1 at the Dollar Tree)

Ribbon (I have a storage bin of curling and fabric ribbon.  If you don't, you can buy some at the Dollar Tree for $1)

Scotch Tape (I had this - Dollar Tree sells it for a $1)

3 bags of candy ($3 at the Dollar Tree)

Total Cost for me:  $4.  I made 24 of them, so it cost a whopping 17 cents each. 

Quick How To:

Gather your supplies.  If you have paper towel rolls, you'd probably want to cut them in half to make them about the same size as the toilet paper rolls.  

Take your package of tissue paper and cut it in half.  

Put your candy or whatever you want in the toilet paper roll.  Then, take 2 sheets of tissue paper.  Tape it to the roll and roll up the roll with the tissue paper.  Tape the tissue paper to keep it secure.  Double knot the ends with some curling ribbon.  

Use your scissors to curl the ribbon ends, and voila - you have a cheap, homemake party favor.  

Why I like these?

Cheap - These are cheap to make.  You could put whatever you want in them - but I chose non-chocolate candy.  So of course I picked up my loot at the Dollar Tree.  When you go to the Dollar Tree, you have to remember that not all candy is created equal.  Some of the candy they sell is so cheap because the bags are so small.  So when filling things like these or pinatas, I go for what gives me the biggest bang for my buck.  Here is my cost analysis of best Dollar Tree candy:

 Bubble Gum Balls - 72 individually wrapped pieces per bag (1.3 cents each)

Smarties - 26 rolls per bag (3.8 cents each)

Dum Dum Pops - 26 lollipops per bag (3.8 cents each)

Reduce, Reuse, Recycle!  - Instead of just tossing my toilet paper and paper towel rolls for 2 weeks, I just saved them.  Why buy plastic treat bags that are just going to end up in the garbage anyways?  Just one little thing to help the environment and all that other happy crap.  

Minimalist - Another thing I like about these things and the way I personally made them is that it teaches kids "portions" and all that other nonsense.  I did not want to put plastic crap that just gets thrown away in them.  They are pretty small so there isn't much candy in them.  Do kids really need a buttload of candy though?  Nah.  

Oh - and for the record, I'm pretty much a hypocrite because I have a piñata that is stuffed with way too much candy.  So these are just being used as a parting gift of sorts.  I'm taking baby steps with this minimalist crap.  

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Community Easter Egg Hunts - Why They Suck

I despise big, crazy Easter egg hunts. We've done Easter egg hunts at the house here with friends and have gone to friends' houses for them.  But the kids have never been to a huge one with a ton of eggs or kids.  I was reminded why I don't take them, yesterday, when my friend shared her experience at one recently.

So the rules at this Easter Egg Hunt were simple.  Each kid can get 4 eggs.  So she said there were a ton of kids who had a good 20-30 eggs.  And the parents were just like, "whatever" and some even cheering them on.  See, if I went to these things - I would want to slap these parents so hard.  And I don't want to be a news story.  "Homemaker Goes Crazy at Local Easter Egg Hunt."  That would be wonderful.  What is so hard about telling your kid, "Hey Dummy - you're 10 years old.  You heard the lady say 4 (FOUR!) eggs.  Go put them back."  Okay, you can leave out calling your precious offspring, "dummy".  But you know what I mean.  Because if you don't do that, what are you teaching them?

-  It's okay to break rules.  Who cares what adults say?

-  It's okay to take what YOU want.  Who cares if there isn't enough for others.

-  More is better.  

-  Greed.

-  If you're a jerk as a kid, you'll probably be a jerk as an adult.  

Her story reminded me of an Easter Egg Hunt that my grandfather took me to when I was probably 8 or 9.  There was no limit on eggs taken.  So I went out with my little basket and I was able to get 1 stupid egg.  Wonderful.   I felt like a loser.  But that's life.  You win some, you lose some.  Little did I know though, that the organizers had "special" eggs.  And my stupid, lonely egg had the number "1" on it.  So first they asked who had the egg with #3 on it.  They got a little prize.  Then #2.  Another prize.  Then #1.  That was ME!  So they handed over to me this gigantic chocolate bunny!  I was so thrilled!  It didn't really dawn on me at the time - but even though I only scored 1 egg at that hunt, it was the quality of egg that mattered - not the quantity.  Similar to how I want to live my life now as an adult.

You might be thinking, "it's just a stupid Easter egg hunt.  Who cares."  I don't know - this type of stuff irks the bejesus out of me.  And that, my friend, is why I think community Easter egg hunts suck.  But many thanks to all the churches, schools and community groups that host them.  You have more patience and understanding than I ever will.

Practical Gifts for the Easter Basket - Yes or No?

I got this idea because my kids will be starting baseball (t-ball) this spring.  They are excited for it.  We recently went to Sports Authority just to check out stuff - we didn't buy anything.  Baseball crap can be expensive.  My 6 year-old made some comment about how I HAVE to buy him a batt and mitt.  Do I though?  Well - I can't very well say, "Go get a job and buy your own baseball stuff." But I just didn't like his tone or attitude of thinking I need to buy him everything he needs.  So on the car ride home, I thought of something - I'm not just going to hand over mitts and crap to them - the Easter Bunny will.  The son is right - I do have to buy some of this stuff - but I don't want to let him know that.  I could buy it used and I might.  But I'm not giving him the satisfaction of knowing I'm just here to buy everything he needs.  So I told him I am poor and will have to save up money by May to buy it before baseball starts.

If you want to spend some dough on the kids this season above and beyond candy, here's some ideas for some more practical baskets that the kids will love just as much as assorted crap from CVS and the Dollar Tree.  If you haven't stocked up on Easter Basket goodies yet - try thinking outside the normal Easter Basket crap and get stuff that your kids could really use and get them active - if you WANT to give them a bountiful Easter Basket.  There is nothing wrong with keeping it simple and little.  I'm only putting baseball stuff in my kids' baskets because I NEED to buy them anyways.

Now don't get me wrong - I love CANDY.  I am not saying do not put candy in a basket, but one can be conservative with candy (or not - fill that sucker up to the brim with Mini Eggs if you want!) but still have a stellar basket for their kids to wake up to.  I just hate all the useless, plastic crap that manufacturers pump out in drones.  I don't know why - it just all seems so useless.  Plastic crap that breaks, stuffed animals, cheapo games that have a gazillion pieces (that all get lost under the refrigerator).  It's all a bunch of crap.

Things you may buy for your kids this spring/summer but can be "brought" by the Easter Bunny:


-  Bathing Suit and Towel.  Chances are, your child needs a new bathing suit this year.  Have the Easter Bunny bring it!

-  Soccer Ball

-  Baseball Glove & Bat

-  Musical instrument

-  New markers and/or crayons (and throw away all those gross old ones)

-  New books!

-  Do you have a little girl who is interested in crafty things?  Get her some yarn and a crochet needle and teach her how to crochet!

-  Sidewalk Chalk

-  Bicycle helmet (because your kid has probably outgrown theirs)

-  Beads & thread to make bracelets & necklaces

-  Gymp!

-  Sand Toys for the beach

-  A kids cookbook - and have the ingredients on hand to make one or two things in it.

-  A new pet (fish, hamster, bunny, etc.)  Remember though - pets aren't cute and they aren't stuffed animals.  Before purchasing even the tiniest of pets - they do take work and you have to be prepared to pick up any slack of maintaining and healthy and happy home for them.


The possibilities are endless.  Good luck with your Easter adventures!  Only 8 days away until the Bunny comes a-hopping along.

***Many thanks to all the comments on My Facebook Page to help me create this list!***  Your input is greatly appreciated!

Less = More. Trying to Teach the Sons in Hidden Messages

I have two kids.  They are different than night and day.  They shared a room for about 5 1/2 years until one day, in their infinite wisdom decided, together, that they wanted their own rooms.  Since we had the third bedroom, I said, "Sure".

Son #1 is generally more orderly than Son #2.  If he's playing with Legos - he's playing with Legos.  He typically cleans stuff up or if he's asked to do it, he does without too much complaining.  Son #2 loves crap.  He loves playing with all sorts of crap - and when he's in his room - it looks like a bomb went off because he merges Army guys with Matchbox cars and Batman guys swoop down to attack them all.  Son #2 hates putting stuff away.

Why does Son #2 hate to put stuff away?  It's not because he's lazy (well maybe a little - and stubborn).  He does clean up at school with no complaints - but his school is neat and orderly.  His room becomes such a cluster of crap, that even I am overwhelmed by it.  So when it's cleaning day - I always head straight for Son #1s room because it's easier to clean because he has less crap in there.  And it's not so much that it's less crap - it's more organized crap.  Son #2 has a plethora of crap that has "no home".  McDonald toys, random Christmas crap that he wanted so much to keep in his room, goodie bag treasures, etc. etc.  Also - because I know Son #2's room is always a bomb, I typically throw all the crap I find around the house in there.  Who's going to notice?

I can pump out a good clean in Son #1s room in about 30 minutes.  Son #2's room takes a good 2-3 hours.  So obviously, I am more enthusiastic to clean Son #1s room.  It's quick, it's easy, I feel a sense of accomplishment.  Cleaning Son #2s room feels like being locked in a prison.

So we've been tackling Son #2s room.  Throwing away broken or "stupid" things.  Putting some stuff in a Tag Sale bin.  I'm using this "cleanse" to tell & teach the kids that their rooms are more functional and peaceful if they have less stuff.  There will be more room to play with less stuff in their.  You'll want to play in there even more if it's not always crazy.  I'll clean it more if there is less stuff because it's not so intimidating for me.  It sunk in a little - when I told them the more floor space they have, the bigger wrestling rink they'll have.  The promise of more fulfilling wrestling matches between the two sounded pretty darn good to both of them.

Hopefully some of the "less is more" crap will sink into their little heads, but then again, maybe the only thing they'll get out of it is, "Mommy's gone off the deep end again".  Either way, at least maybe I'll have a grasp on Son #2s room here soon and be able to keep it that way for a while.

Inspiration Can Come From the Most Unlikely Sources

The past few years, I have befriended an older man who goes around the neighborhood collecting cans from people's recycling bins.  He drives a beat up car that is usually filled with cans and other assorted "treasures".  On the surface, he probably looks kind of sketchy to the average person.  In fact, I've had some neighbors ask me, "what's the deal with the weird guy who's always looking for cans?"  Well, for some reason, I love him.

Most people probably think he's just a homeless bum who is trying to feed a drug or alcohol addiction.  And I'll admit - I kind of thought that when I first saw him back about 5 years ago.  But for some reason, I started talking to him one day about 3 years ago.  Even though he may look a little off - he is one of the nicest, most down-to-Earth, and inspirational people I have ever met.

Here's some of the things I have learned about him in the past few years:  He doesn't have a drug or alcohol problem - or if he does, he is treating it with sobriety - He's just says he doesn't drink - and in all my times talking to him, he doesn't seem like he's on any type of drug.  He's always focused and knows what's up - but he does have an element of natural kookiness to him.  That's why I like him.  He actually has a job (most likely close to minimum wage - given what he told me it is) - but supplements his income by collecting cans.  He's a Vietnam vet and has "saw things that he does not care to share."  He doesn't use VA services because he doesn't want to take away funds and services from other veterans who might actually need them.  In fact, he doesn't receive any government assistance (and never has) except for recently - when he turned 65 and became eligible for Medicare.   He would have liked to stay/re-enlist in the Army after Vietnam, but the country pretty much told most soldiers to take a hike.  He goes to church every week - not because he's some religious freak, but because he is thankful for all he has and someone greater than him must have given that to him.  He lives in a house on the other side of the neighborhood - not in a shelter or tent in the park.  He never got married and never had kids.  He considers himself lucky because he has never been really sick or had any major health issue.  One time I asked him how is was and he replied, "I have my health, that's all I need."  That's a very interesting thought.

I guess it's just nice and refreshing to see and talk to someone who is relatively happy and content with not having much.  I've never heard him complain.  Sometimes I'll apologize to him for not having any cans or bottles and he just laughs and says, "Don't be silly."  He thinks I'm an "angel" because I put any redeemable stuff to the side for him.  One time, someone else stopped to get my cans and I wanted to go out there and yell at them - but I realized that would have been really odd.

The point of all this babble I guess - is if we judge people by what they have or what they don't have - we might be missing out on talking to some really incredible people.

Nantasket Beach: Park All Year for $35!

Nantasket Beach Goers - Don't pay $8 - $12 to park every time you want to soak up the sun!  Get a season pass for only $35!

If you don't know, Nantasket Beach in Hull is actually a MA owned DCR park.  What does this mean?  If you have a MA DCR Parks Pass, you can park there for free whenever.  The pass costs you $35 if you are a MA resident.  If you are aged 62 or older - the pass is FREE!  All you have to do is ask for it!

Internet purchasing should premier this spring, but if you want to be ahead of the game, you can mail in your application.  It's easy.  It's quick.  I mailed my in about a month ago and got it the following week.  You can get all the information by CLICKING HERE ON THE DCR PARKS PASS PAGE.

You can also get "free" parking at the following MA state parks and beaches which charge a parking fee.  While you are out exploring all these great state parks this summer with your parking pass, be sure to check out the Parks Passport program.  This is a free program that lets you get a stamp at various state parks.  Kids get a big kick out of "stamping their passport" all over creation.

MassParks Facilities where parking fees are charged and MassParks Passes are available. (Fees listed apply to cars without a ParksPass)

Greater Boston –

Nantasket Beach $7 Get your MassParks Pass at Nantasket Beach Headquarters, 215 Nantasket Avenue, Hull, MA  02045.  (Monday through Friday) beginning May 1, 2013 thru September1, 2013 between 8am and 2pm.
Nahant Beach $3  Get your MassParks Pass at the Eliot House, 1 Eliot Circle in Revere, (Monday through Friday) between 9am and 3pm. 

Southeastern Massachusetts

Borderland SP $2 Parking fees charged Jan – Dec
Demarest Lloyd S.P. $7
Horseneck Beach S.R. $8
Myles Standish S.F., College Pond Area Only $5
South Cape Beach S.P. $7
Scusset Beach S.R. $7

Watson Pond $5

Northeastern Massachusetts

Bradley Palmer S.P. $5
Cochituate SP $5
Great Brook Farm S.P. $2 Parking fees charged Jan – Dec
Halibut Point S.P. $2
Hopkinton S.P. $5
Maudslay S.P. $2 Parking fees charged Jan – Dec
Pearl Hill S.P. $5
Salisbury Beach S.R. $9
Walden Pond S.R. $5
Willard Brook S.F. $5

Central Massachusetts

Blackstone District: 
Douglas S.F. $5
Quinsigamond S.P., Regatta Point $5
Rutland SP, $5
Streeter Point R.A. $5
Wells S.P. $2

Connecticut Valley District
Chicopee S.P. $5
Hampton Ponds S.P. $5
Robinson S.P. $5
Mt. Holyoke Range S.P. $2
Mt. Sugarloaf S.R. $2
Mt. Tom S.R. $2

Quabbin District
Dunn S.P. $5
Erving S.F. $5
Lake Dennison R.A. $5
Lake Wyola S.P. $5
Leominster S.F. $5
Otter River S.F. $5
Wachusett Mtn. S.R. $2
Wendell S.F. $5

Western Massachusetts

Beartown SF, $5
Clarksburg S.P. $5
D.A.R. S.F. $5
Gardner C M $2
Mohawk Trail S.F. $5

Mt. Greylock S.R. $2
Natural Bridge S.P. $2
Pittsfield S.F. $2
Sandisfield S.F. $5
Savoy Mtn. S.F. $5
Tolland S.F. $5
Windsor S.F. $5